But my reader was filled with the tragic news of Ryan Barrett's death and my heart is too heavy for all the rest of that. I met Mary Ellen last year at the Family Centered Learning Conference where she so eloquently - and with a beautiful sense of humor - spoke about home schooling a special needs child, which of course was Ryan. My prayers are with the Barretts and their entire extended family, home school group, and parish community. It is obvious from the little I know of them that Ryan's life touched an unbelievable amount of people.